Dating recent widowers

Many widowers have been married to only one spouse.Many have been married for several years—in some cases, more than forty years.The guy’s been married for 30 years, his wife dies in June and he started dating online 2 months later?

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He has probably been taken care of, coddled, and somewhat controlled.

I want to be sure that I am getting my needs met and that I’m not just a “rebound” for him. Dear Karen, One thing I know about widowers, followed by two things I know about men.

Widowers are QUICK to rebound, to a point of being unseemly.

You know what a widower’s left with when his wife dies? A man’s inability to survive without a woman is a big explanation why a widower is often a very hot ticket on the open market – he’s LOOKING to be married again. But, at a certain point, a man has to step up and give you a reasonable amount of attention and comfort.

Factor in the dearth of older men – there are literally 3 times more single women over the age of 65 – and, well, a decent looking widower doesn’t stay available for very long. And if he fails, he risks losing the woman he cares about.


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